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389Maverick
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Post by 389Maverick » Tue Oct 25, 2016 1:31 am

As I sit here, trying to compose and structure my thoughts, so that words can somewhat translate on my screen, I can’t help but feel melancholic at the same time.

As some of you already know, my father passed away on October 1st, and one of his requests, regardless of the outcome, was that I fish one of our local tournaments that we had signed up for, and took place on the 15th of October.

I honored my father and fished the event just a few Saturdays ago.
I knew it would be somewhat of a heavy burden, and although it was harder than I anticipated, the fishing community has a way of alleviating the strain of such a difficult loss.

My father had always said, we’re a tight knit community, one that always supports each no matter what.
That being said, the meaning of his words significantly rendered when out fishing that day.
Whether it be through offering condolences, to sharing a story, or simply navigating in between boats as a flash of remembrance filled the crisp morning air.

At days end, I dropped a pinch of my father’s ashes in the lake, it was one of his favorite place to fish, and it only felt right that I do so.

As we made our way on shore, distribution of prizes was to begin.
I was honestly expecting a few words in regards to my father’s passing, but the staggering gesture that came next was overwhelming in a way I had never experienced before.

The tournament executives came up with the idea of honouring Francois Dufour, AKA StarTzar, with a memorial plaque that exemplifies exceptional dedication and support of competitive angling in Eastern Ontario, Canada.
The fishing community has always been one who’s bound by strong relationships, those said relationships, have been fortified in way words cannot describe.

As the moon rose on the horizon, I know he was looking down in genuine admiration.

He was an avid reader of TT, it made for very entertaining conversations in our everyday lives.
He was also an enthusiast, loved high end gear, and splurged himself when possible.

Although not much of a “tackle show and tell” I wanted to post a few words in remembrance of my fishing partner, my best friend, my father.

Regards,
Marc

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Re: StarTzar

Post by rockchalk06 » Tue Oct 25, 2016 3:14 am

Thats awesome man! My old man was just the same. Its been 4 years and not a day goes by that makes it easier.

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Re: StarTzar

Post by Teal101 » Tue Oct 25, 2016 4:42 am

Sorry for your loss bud. That is extremely awesome of the tournament execs to honor your father like that =D>

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Re: StarTzar

Post by jtgibso1 » Tue Oct 25, 2016 4:55 am

sorry for your loss, that's an awesome tribute to your pops!

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Re: StarTzar

Post by Ham Solo » Tue Oct 25, 2016 6:42 am

I'm very sorry for your loss, Mav. It sounds like the tourney did your pops right with that plaque. Very cool.

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Re: StarTzar

Post by spencerinstl » Tue Oct 25, 2016 7:48 am

Sorry for your loss, I lost my dad 4 years ago. Very nice tribute for your your dad.

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Re: StarTzar

Post by BassFisher83 » Tue Oct 25, 2016 8:17 am

While I had no idea what to expect to find by the title of the post, I'm sure glad I came here. Such an awesome story. Very sorry for your loss.

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Re: StarTzar

Post by Hogsticker2 » Tue Oct 25, 2016 8:23 am

Very cool Marc

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Re: StarTzar

Post by MINES » Tue Oct 25, 2016 8:54 am

sorry for your loss.... awesome read...

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Re: StarTzar

Post by hysupra » Tue Oct 25, 2016 9:52 am

So sorry for your loss, I want to call my dad now. Awesome story and sweet plaque.

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Re: StarTzar

Post by the hooligan » Tue Oct 25, 2016 11:05 am

Very nice marc

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Re: StarTzar

Post by Fishing4Fun » Tue Oct 25, 2016 12:50 pm

Sorry to hear of the passing of your father. I fear the day when I will be without mine. Prayers to you and your family and I think you and the tournament guys really did a nice job honoring him!

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Re: StarTzar

Post by papabassin » Tue Oct 25, 2016 1:09 pm

Thanks for sharing, Marc. Great story!

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Re: StarTzar

Post by Jdmbiggie » Tue Oct 25, 2016 1:43 pm

always a good feller... great job =D>

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Re: StarTzar

Post by jpd0144 » Tue Oct 25, 2016 1:53 pm

Sorry for your loss ... prayers to you and your family.

Fish on StarTzar ! ----<><

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